Rewarding cheating harlots


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21 August 2006

My job in banking isn’t exactly exciting, although the various women there provide amusing anecdotes for my blog.

The other day I did encounter something work-related that needs reporting. I got a file relating to an investment bond type thingie. It wasn’t meant for me so I flicked through it to figure out which Department I should send it too. Inside was a photocopy of a Divorce Certificate, complete with various information relating to the assets being split up; presumably it was there to prove the man who owned the policy had been assigned it during his recent divorce.

I had a nosy through it, growing more and more sickened as I did so.

At the start it related that the man had filed for divorce because his wife had committed adultery “with an unnamed man.” The wife admitted adultery and did not contest it.

Then came to dividing up the assets or, more accurately, giving the adulterous bitch just about fucking everything.

First she got the house. She does have to take over the mortgage, but they’d been married twenty-years; the average mortgage is twenty-five-years and most people take it out when they marry or sometimes before. So it’s unlikely there’s more than five-years left to pay.

She got all the furniture in the house.

She got the car.

She was paid £45,000 from the joint savings account.

She got full custody of their two sons, both under ten (the guy better get them DNA tested, at least before they make that illegal.)

Finally she gets £225 a month Child Support from her ex-husband for each of the two children until they turn seventeen.

What did the husband get?

The investment bond, worth £10,000, a pittance compared to what he’s had taken from him. There might have been more money left in the joint savings account, perhaps as much as what he was forced to give to his ex-wife, but I doubt it. He’s probably flat-broke, not to mention most probably living in a small rented flat, if he is having to cash in the investment bond barely a year after the divorce. Plus that ten-grand won’t even cover two-years of Child Support and he’s got over six-years of that to pay. This guy is in his forties and is virtually having to start his life over again after having everything he worked for robbed from him, plus with the disadvantage of having to pay five-grand a year to some bitch ex-wife.

Once again I remind you that she cheated on him and admitted it!

Furthermore his wife is probably living with her adulterous lover in the house. With the kids. Imagine that, your own children probably having to call the man who your wife cheated on you with “Daddy.”

I occasionally get a bit pissed off, like everybody does, especially in the Matriarchy, but I have to count my blessings and think that at least I haven’t had the horror of going into a divorce court and, through no fault of my own, be told just how much of my hard-earned assets I am going to have stripped from me and handed to some cheating ex-wife, including my own children. Plenty of guys do go through this, of course, and it’s thanks to these guys spreading the word of their experiences that are ensuring more and more of us bachelors are vowing to remain that way.

posted by Duncan Idaho @ 8:54 AM
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At 10:44 AM, pete said…

Thanks for reminding me why I don’t want to get married, against my girlfriend’s wishes. Its not about the woman, not at all. The sweetest, cutest little mayflower can take you for a ride in court, and it doesn’t even have to be all her doing. She’s the catalyst – the agent that enables the hateful reaction of the family law system, stripping men down to the bare, leaving them with nothing but a feeling of despair and hopelessness.

The rationale people use to convince men that they must marry and have kids to stave off loneliness and “dying alone” is coming threadbare – we can see right through it.

There’s the high road of not marrying, enduring society’s stigma and the amount of shame, blame and guilt that will be flung at you, in order to live as a free man. The rough road leads to bliss.

Then there’s the low road of giving in to society’s demands, your family’s demands and your girlfriend’s demands and getting married. The easy road leads to the abyss.

Thanks for the post, it makes it perfectly clear where men stand in the eyes of the court.

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At 12:21 PM, darkbhudda said…

Even the nicest woman will be poisoned by her friends who will do everything to destroy your marriage as they can’t let any other woman be happy.

The word is spreading.

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At 12:48 PM, MadMat said…

£225 a month Child Support for two kids! I pay £684.93 per month Child Support to my two kids (CS1), well, to my ex wife and her boyfriend. All from an average wage. He got off lightly there me thinks.

“To avoid a messy divorce, find a woman you really dislike, and give her your house.”

Stay Single. Stay happy.

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At 1:29 PM, the sad geek said…

Slavery by any other name…

What tragedy that love is poisoned for the greed and hate of the elite. The fish rots from the head down indeed.

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At 1:57 PM, ChicagoMan said…

Personally I think that if she admitted to cheating, the courts should only give her what she brought INTO the marriage. He did NOTHING wrong and now must suffer because of some selfish bitch.

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At 2:45 PM, Brett said…

Once you get passed the doublespeak put out by our rubbish legal system whats basically going on here is that his wife has decided to screw another man. Thus the state has thrown the husband out of the house, banned him from his children and made him her financial slave.

Thanks Eternal Bachelor.

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At 3:49 PM, nevo said…

This example begs the question of what 50% he’s got.
There is nothing equal in that split. There must be something else in the split.

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At 5:46 PM, Anonymous said…

Its laws like this thats killing our birthrates and extincting us in the West.

The laws MAKE women evil by putting perverse incentives before them.

Guys, if you could ditch your wife for a younger gal………………………get the kids, make HER pay YOU child support, get the house, could falsely accuse her of nagging YOU……………………………………I bet you wouldn’t take much shit from her would you?

Knowing this, you’d change over time. There would be no consequence of being cruel to her. Attracted to the new secretary at work? Fuck her on you lunch break. Whats the little lady at home going to do? You’ve got her by the short hairs, you can ruin her at any time.

We have to make women understand that these evil laws ruin LOVE and COMMITMENT. Thats why their are so many aging lonely unmarried childless people now. The laws totally pervert the natural order of marriage, and make it a death pact for the man. Who came up with these laws and what were their purpose? Thats the 64-dollar question. When you answer that, you will know the answer.

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At 6:04 PM, b said…

Jesus.

Just one more reminder NOT to get married.

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At 9:15 PM, Captain Zarmband said…

All of this happened to me too. Add to this that I’ve not seen my kids for six and a half years and you get an idea of what’s in store for you if you get married. And don’t think that the Family Courts will ensure that you keep in touch with your kids, they won’t,they’ll just rubber stamp your ex-wife’s spiteful demands. Oh, and why did I divorce my ex? Her adultery which she admitted to in court. However, she now denies that her adultery ever took place so you can add liar to the list.

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At 10:21 PM, Anonymous said…

Who came up with these laws and what were their purpose?

The people who run things. Follow the $$$. All roads lead to a bank vault. They KNOW the effect that is occurring surely as deteriorating public schools are NO accident either. It is all by design.

Purpose? In short the people running the show have a god complex. The more the non-elites (i.e., citizens, serfs, slaves) are turned and degraded into ignorant animals the more they are gods by comparison.

About women seeing the light or coming to their senses, don’t hold your breath. Women, by and large, are incapable of abstract thinking (i.e., thinking beyond the ramifications of something that does not immediately benefit them). They are getting their materialistic and narcissistic needs met. What happens to “society” at large is an abstraction that will be a problem for someone else (if they give it any thought at all). That’s why it was very important for the elites to “empower” women. Men can see the long-term damage that would be done by certain courses or social policy. It was necessary to put people, who effectively have the mental capacity of children, into the drivers seat. Much easier to manipulate and control outcomes. It’s much easier to psychologically control “children” (e.g., candy, rewards, endless immediate gratification) than it is to control adult males capable of high-order reasoning and abstract thinking.

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At 5:00 AM, Ba1anced said…

Hey EB,

I’m a yank and I read your articles everyday. I admire the “righteous indignation” you have towards the matriarchal west. Anyway there is a document amongst American “conspiracy” circles called “Silent Weapons For Quiet Wars” It was supposedly written about 20 years ago but what I have read so far is shocking. You guys should take some time and google it. It is basically a manual by supposed business elites on how to create a matriarchy for prolonged economic gain. This is what we see today in the west.

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At 8:23 AM, Arpeggio Dave said…

anonymous, that was very deep and pertinent (sp?). These are the reasons why all you see in congress (in both the UK and US) are idiots, suckups, Freemasons, Zionists, bonesmen, but never people with the interests of we the people. I’ve got a tons of beliefs and conspiracies about the way women work, but those are for another day.

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At 11:56 AM, Masculist Man said…

There’s the high road of not marrying, enduring society’s stigma and the amount of shame, blame and guilt that will be flung at you, in order to live as a free man. The rough road leads to bliss.

I’ve got to agree with Pete as there is an old saying “society is involved in a conspiracy against manhood”. I hate being told that shit that if you don’t have a woman you are not complete and who the hell is selling us this bullshit? The women,that’s who.

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At 12:00 PM, Masculist Man said…

Guys, if you could ditch your wife for a younger gal………………………get the kids, make HER pay YOU child support, get the house, could falsely accuse her of nagging YOU……………………………………I bet you wouldn’t take much shit from her would you?

You’re blaming the TRUE victims of family courts here and I find that unconscionable.

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At 12:03 PM, Masculist Man said…

However, she now denies that her adultery ever took place so you can add liar to the list.

Women like that are great to run into-as long as she’s the pedestrian and I’m the driver.

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At 10:25 PM, Anonymous said…

That’s why it was very important for the elites to “empower” women. Men can see the long-term damage that would be done by certain courses or social policy. It was necessary to put people, who effectively have the mental capacity of children, into the drivers seat. Much easier to manipulate and control outcomes. It’s much easier to psychologically control “children” (e.g., candy, rewards, endless immediate gratification) than it is to control adult males capable of high-order reasoning and abstract thinking.

VERY VERY true! *applauds* By putting the idiots (overemotional, illogical people…by definition: WOMEN!) in charge of society, we are now all VERY easily controlled!

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