“Stop teh backlash!”


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25 December 2006

In both recent comments, as well as occasional articles by some women (including a few self-proclaimed ‘ex-feminists’), us men are frequently told we shouldn’t be angry at women, that we should all get along and such nonsense.

Funny how feminists have spent decades hurling abuse at men and boys and expressing hair-raising bigotry and hatred at males, yet now us men are getting sick of it and getting just a tiny tiny bit fucked off and, in some quarters, downright apocalyptic with rage, these bitches are backpedaling and demanding we all just along, that we should end the sex-war (but not repeal all the anti-male bias in system and culture) and that we should not express any dissatisfaction, let alone contempt, at women.

It apparantly never occurred to feminists who started all this shit, nor the women who followed it, that animosity has a real nasty way of boomeranging back at those who fling it at other people. Oh dear. Snigger.

Seriously though, it would be nice if the relationships between the sexes weren’t actually as fucked up as they are. Shit, I’d like to find something else to rant about than feminism and how annoying most modern Western Women are, or indeed to be able to avoid having anything to rant about at all. How nice it would be to live in a pre-feminist era, married to a nice wife, with lots of kids, and maybe running a light-hearted blog about, I dunno, frogs or something.

But, sadly, that’s not the case; feminism has fucked everything all up, ruined families, messed up children, knackered societies, not to mention – ironically – condemning plenty of women to a life of lonely childless drudgery with no guy willing or daring to marry them. Yet despite this, and despite women now being the most pampered demographic in human history, feminists still rampage around shrieking and whining and trying (and often succeeding) in getting governments to stomp men and boys further into the mud.

So, the backlash will just have to continue, until we either shout feminists into cowering submission, or just refuse to marry, have children or slave away and pay taxes until our society suffers the just (and inevitable) fate of any society that becomes geared towards the whims of feminists; namely, complete collapse and extinction.

posted by Duncan Idaho @ 10:24 AM

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At 12:31 PM, Raymond said…

You have my complete agreement. Bachelorhood all the way!

I would write up about more about feminism on my own blog since I’ve been a lurker at your blog since 2004, but I don’t have the same writing skill in regards to social issues like feminism ^^

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At 12:32 PM, Anonymous said…

You are right about everything. I didn’t want to believe things were this bad but now I do.

I’ve noticed many women are trying to do a quick-fix after they turn 35. After sleeping around for years, they suddenly want the old traditional system. Many start becoming religious to “show” that they are really good girls. So many women are doing this that lots of churches are now over 75% female.

They don’t want a return to tradition, just a return to women being worshiped again. It won’t happen in my lifetime.

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At 1:54 PM, caroline said…

I wander if you are getting any sex. I suspect not therefore your anger may be due to a lack of oxytocin.

I love men, honestly. and I am single, have success in my work, very much like men that treat woman with respect and I am without a need to demonstrate any feminism and get along perfectly with happy healthy men which understands that everything changes with time, even the role of men and woman in society and relationships.

I would think you just need a slight adaptation to the times that you live in. And learn to love the opposite sex as well.

You seam more like a victim to your own ideas of reality then what is the actual fact about it.

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At 2:37 PM, Anonymous said…

maybe there are good women out there… but it doesn’t seem worth it trying to find them. i’ll be single forever.

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At 3:27 PM, Bruce Wayne said…

The reason they get so upset and tell us to get along is simple – women need men.

As much as women will argue “they don’t need a man” this just isn’t the case.

Why? b/c men make womens’ lives easier. Women need men to feel secure and comfortable. With a man in her life, a woman has the option of working or not, she feels secure that she won’t be alone for the rest of her life, etc.

The problem is women believe their power of pussy was so great that no matter what they did, how they behaved, etc. Men would still be attracted to them.

For centuries, this was the case b/c women hid their motives behind the facade of being a “lady.” However, once women became “liberated”, the mask was dropped and women fully displayed their illogical, deceitful behavior for all men to see.

Now, many men are rejecting women completely or using them purely for sex with no commitment to them.

Women are having a much tougher time keeping a man these days. This problem was unheard of 50 yrs. ago, yet articles about “finding mr. right” grace the cover of todays womens’ magazines almost monthly.

Women simply are not built to be alone or live in solitude.

Now, they are realizing that more and more men are absolutely fed up with all their nonsense.

And this scares the shit out of them.

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At 4:00 PM, Days of Broken Arrows said…

What anonymous just wrote is SO on the mark. I know exactly the type of women he is talking about. I used to do IM chats with one — some of the filthiest talk ever — now she is 38 and married to some sucker and has “taken Jesus into her life.” Please.

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At 4:21 PM, Bruce Wayne said…

I wander if you are getting any sex. I suspect not therefore your anger may be due to a lack of oxytocin.

Another shaming phrase. Like I didn’t see that coming a mile away.

I would think you just need a slight adaptation to the times that you live in.

This is the typical feminist argument, that men need to adapt to “changing roles.”

We are adapting. We’re saying no to women and commitment.

Oh wait, you mean adapt as in put up will all the bullshit that women dish out?

Sorry, that’s not adaption sweetie that’s your attempt to try and control our behavior.

You seam more like a victim to your own ideas of reality then what is the actual fact about it.

If you would actually read Duncan’s blog, you would see that his comments are baed on observable behavior of women, stats, facts, etc.

He is making an accurate commentation on what really is going on in the world with respect to male/female relations.

Don’t tell me you actually believed all the feminist jibberish about how men are really dumb did you?

In any event, I find it grossly amusing how all these women are commenting now as soon as Duncan advocates having nothing to do with them commitment wise.

You’re not helping your case ladies. In fact, you’re just looking more and more desperate. And giving us even more incentive not to commit to you.

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At 4:42 PM, Canaryguy said…

It isn’t just backlash that women are dealing with (and we need to give them more of that), but blowback. Men walking away from systems that are stacked against them (marriage, workplace romance) is just the natural consequences that women have worked for. And oddly enough when a majority of women look down on men and demand privilege from them in ordinary relations, oddly enough they start to feel a little bit shunned when we walk away from that as well.

Boo-hoo.

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At 4:43 PM, Anonymous said…

Thank you for giving a voice to so many men who have had lives ruined through the power of evil feminist law.

I am spending the holidays preparing to go to a “case conference” in hopes of establishing a parenting relationship with my son. I haven’t seen my son in 8 weeks, and that’s too bad.

Due to female friendly laws, my ex can do whatever she wants, like whatever she wants. I don’t really blame her, I blame the system. She is just another selfish bitch, which is not uncommon.

“You want to kidnap the kid, steal tons of cash from the father, and make it impossible for him to be a father, or to have any kind of life?, sounds good, pass me the rubber stamp.”

May a hail of Christmas bullets rain down on our Judges, and lawmakers, as our society is taken over by the Islamics.

Say goodbye to the western world.

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At 4:58 PM, Rob Fedders said…

Oh, my little darlings…we have just begun to backlash at your sorry tattooed asses!

We haven’t even gotten the strategy down yet, we’re just feeling so happily empowered to finally be backlashing against those who have taunted and jeered at us for decades.

Remember:

Woman hating is an honourable and viable political act!

I have little sympathy for women. Like a Jew just released from Dachau, I watch the beautiful, young feminazis fall writhing to the ground from the angry backlash and I look briefly and walk on. I don’t even need to shrug. I simply don’t care. What she was, as a person, I mean, what her shames and yearnings were, simply don’t matter.

Women who unjustly suffer from the backlash can sometimes gain from the experience.

We are, as a sex, infinitely superior to women.

I believe that men have a capacity for understanding and morality which a woman structurally does not have, does not have it because she cannot have it. She’s just incapable of it.

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At 5:03 PM, chandra said…

The past is the past. So what if lots of us went wild in college? I lost track of how many boys I slept with during school. Sex is just having fun.

The problem with men now is they they are afraid to pay for a woman and family since some of us might have had a little “fun” before wanting to get married. What’s wrong with paying to raise another guy’s kid? You want to be a father, right? You get the fun of being a dad. Who cares if some other guy got to have me?

There are lots of single women with children who need support. If you guys need a woman, don’t be afraid to support a woman with kids. It’s like getting an instant family – and studies say a family is better for a man. Besides, you might even get lucky once a month.

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At 5:58 PM, Anonymous said…

I wander if you are getting any sex. I suspect not therefore your anger may be due to a lack of oxytocin.

Feminist Fairy Tales: Chapter XIXIXI

You want to see anger over sexual related matters? 10 million shrieking women with empty wombs because no man will mate with them. You ain’t seen a meltdown over lack of sex till you’ve seen women unable to fulfill their reproductive biology. I’ve seen it myself. You all start hallucinating, going crazy, crying for no reason.

I would think you just need a slight adaptation to the times that you live in.

We are adapting. Just not in the way you calculated.

And learn to love the opposite sex as well.

WE are going to show you as much love and respect as YOU have shown us.

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At 6:01 PM, Panzer said…

Well good, it seems this little movement is working, better than anyone who doubted it expected. Willing to come to the table, good, willing to talk, great, a step in the right direction. If they think men are just going to say its over and let all the anger, bitterness, contempt, and mistrust, just drop right then and there well their mistaken.

Sorry ladies the damage has been done, it has gone on for to long, we might be able to make it right but we all know old habits die hard. If you get upset that we are not taking the first deal offered, to bad. This problem has been going on for years and it will take years to fix it.

No I dont need oxytocin or any other medication, and no lack of sex isnt affecting me either, that was uncalled for. Want to talk issues, fine. Want to debate this movement, great. Want to start your comment with insults and shamming language, thats the best way to piss people off to the point of not giving a fuck what you say, hell it worked for me.

Panzer

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At 6:08 PM, Panzer said…

Chandra, get the fuck out of here. Just go, your comment is complete shit and humanity just dropped on the evolutionary scale thanks to you. GET LOST ASSHOLE!

Panzer

“55 tons of bitch-resistant armor”

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At 6:11 PM, Anonymous said…

I love men, honestly.

A woman professing honesty towards men.

Hold onto your wallets guys! :-0

and I am single, have success in my work, very much like men that treat woman with respect and I am without a need to demonstrate any feminism and get along perfectly with happy healthy men which understands that everything changes with time, even the role of men and woman in society and relationships.

Ain’t affirmative action great!

You’re confusing men getting along with you, treating you with respect (which is actually just courtesy, because ‘respect’ is earned), and appearing happy WITH the effects of draconian workplaces rules and double-standards put on men. Men walk on egg shells these days in the corporate world due to legal threats (not because you women are so powerful or wonderful, despite what deluded beliefs you may hold). If a man even looks cross-eyed at a woman in the corporate world these days the full weight of the corporate legal department (and maybe the State) comes down on his ass. It’s an act on the part of men. There is very little about the chattering, shrieking, game-playing spoiled drama queens who inhabit the warrens of the corporate world to engender respect from men. Fear not. Like with colleges that have been turned into Fem Concentration Camps, men will start to abandon the corporate world in droves. It’s all like a choking pool of lies and estrogen (i.e., a female pink hellhole) now anyways.

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At 6:15 PM, Anonymous said…

You seam more like a victim to your own ideas of reality then what is the actual fact about it.

This is a common mental illness in women.

They inflict harm on others, but deny it in their own minds. Repeat.

Women are NOT the kind, empathetic creatures of fairy tales and such. They are selfish, cold, calculating creatures by nature. Considerable effort used to be required in the past to mold them into respectable persons.

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At 6:17 PM, Anonymous said…

maybe there are good women out there… but it doesn’t seem worth it trying to find them. i’ll be single forever.

It’s not only that, but women are fickle and emotional unstable creatures.

She can be the sweetest creature one minute then wake up one morning and decide to destroy her family (and you along with it).

They are NOT to be trusted, much less be given the power like they have no (e.g., no fault divorce).

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At 6:22 PM, Anonymous said…

May a hail of Christmas bullets rain down on our Judges, and lawmakers, as our society is taken over by the Islamics.

Spare the honest, non-corrupt judges.

Which will spare about 1 in 1,000.

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At 6:24 PM, Anonymous said…

I watch the beautiful, young feminazis fall writhing to the ground from the angry backlash and I look briefly and walk on.

I would have stopped momentarily to piss on them.

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At 6:41 PM, Anonymous said…

The problem with men now is they they are afraid to pay for a woman and family since some of us might have had a little “fun” before wanting to get married. What’s wrong with paying to raise another guy’s kid? You want to be a father, right? You get the fun of being a dad. Who cares if some other guy got to have me?

I’ve never known a woman that preferred a used car or used clothes over a new car or new clothes, when given the choice.

Cupcake, don’t you want to drive a car or wear clothes that someone else had fun in?

Men, as a rule, are biologically inclined to produce and raise THEIR children (genes). Not the product of a coupling between a slut and her bad boy of the evening.

There are lots of single women with children who need support.

I thought women are strong and independent.

If you guys need a woman, don’t be afraid to support a woman with kids.

Men don’t NEED women. The opposite is apparently true, however (given your pandering to men to rescue your fellow hobags-in-distress).

It’s like getting an instant family – and studies say a family is better for a man.

Starting a family with a good woman used to work, but never with a promiscuous slut looking for a wallet to raise her feral brood. A SUCKER stepping in to attempt to raise the resentful children of some badboy while mommy is a promiscuous slut. Sounds like a winner to me.

Besides, you might even get lucky once a month.

Win the syphilis lottery from Typhoid Mary?

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At 6:41 PM, Anonymous said…

I wander if you are getting any sex.

OMFG, we really didn’t see that one coming /rollseyes

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At 6:57 PM, Anonymous said…

What’s wrong with paying to raise another guy’s kid?

So, candra, how many single fathers are you supporting? After all, what’s wrong with supporing another guy’s child, right?

There are lots of single women with children who need support.

Funny you should mention this, since it was you, afterall, who begun her post with the following line:

Sex is just having fun.

Exactly. And especially if the Taxpayer is paying for it, when you need support for your oopsie-daisy.

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At 7:34 PM, Bruce Wayne said…

The past is the past. So what if lots of us went wild in college? I lost track of how many boys I slept with during school. Sex is just having fun.

Precisely. Everyone is entitled to free will. If this is how a woman chooses to spend her college life, I’m not complaining. In fact, I love casual flings.

The problem with men now is they they are afraid to pay for a woman and family since some of us might have had a little “fun” before wanting to get married.

Wait a minute, you want to exercise your free will but you have a problem with men exercising their free will?

You can’t fault men for avoiding you based on your actions in the past.

You seem to want it both ways. You want to exercise your free will and make any decision you want. And then turn around and not be held accountable for your actions. You want to “force” men into accepting you regardless of what you have done in the past. And when men make the free choice not to accept you, you argue that they have a “problem.”

Sorry sweetie, you can’t have it both ways. The world doesn’t work like that.

What’s wrong with paying to raise another guy’s kid? You want to be a father, right? You get the fun of being a dad. Who cares if some other guy got to have me?

Simple, b/c I don’t want to pay when someone else is responsible. If its his child, let him pay to raise it. Isn’t that only fair?

There are lots of single women with children who need support. If you guys need a woman, don’t be afraid to support a woman with kids. It’s like getting an instant family – and studies say a family is better for a man. Besides, you might even get lucky once a month.

Of course there are, they are paying for the mistakes and bad judgments they made. And now you are complaining when men want to steer clear of them.

Chivalry is dead honey, we are not gonna save you this time.

You are on your own.

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At 7:47 PM, sheryl said…

chandra is absolutely right. u guys r just afraid of commitment. there is nothing wrong with single mums an if u guys marry 1 u get a ready made family with a flat jsut like that. so thats a good thing.

but u arnent real men r u? u lot are just a load of knobs that want mums to look after them all the time.

i get blokes who want 2 b my b/f ask me out all the time but i dont want a lazy man but a real man. and ill get 1 cause this is me;

and i bet non of u have got a g/f ever have u? loosers

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At 8:02 PM, VoodooJock said…

If you think this petty shit we’re talking about now is a backlash, you’re in for a real treat when this shit grows to uncontrollable proportions. But hell, keep telling us we’re lower than housecats, after all, those shaming tactics fix everything.

You’ve given us your best shot. It wasn’t enough. Welcome to true equality.

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At 8:04 PM, VoodooJock said…

And Chandra, it’s your body, your choice. You chose poorly. YOU deal with the consequences. Don’t expect US to bail you and your bastard kid out of a jam because you decided to ‘have some fun’.

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At 8:27 PM, julie said…

Females having the right to vote happened by accident. FACT

Females wanted the pill. FACT

Females bonded with their sisters thinking they were doing the right thing. FACT

Feminism is about empowering women. FALSE

(but many women didn’t realise this and some still don’t)FACT

Feminism is anti-male FACT

Feminism is anti-marriage FACT

Feminism is out of control FACT

Females are losing out FACT

Children are losing out FACT

Society is totally messed up FACT

Females are not just turning to men because their biological clocks are ticking or because men are on marriage strike. They are turning to men because feminists are also taking their children away from them. What’s the biggest movement now under feminists.

SAVE THE CHILDREN and what has our Governments done. Allowed business to donate lots of money as tax breaks and to show how they care for the communities and causes. The money is flowing in. Children have more rights than mothers or fathers. Don’t forget their real agenda is to make people become what they want them to become. They have the laws, they have the brainwashing tools such as education, they have worked out how to use suggestive powers (even able to put a life into someones brain they never had) and they have the drugs.

What does that mean. Men and women are now both disposable to the feminists. Yes, they are turning on the women they are supposed to help because they haven’t changed us fast enough and some not at all.

Hitler has nothing on these women.

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At 9:37 PM, NHY said…

The past is the past. So what if lots of us went wild in college? I lost track of how many boys I slept with during school. Sex is just having fun.

Its Funny, the past has a way of coming back to haunt you. When you sleep with a woman, your also sleeping with all her previous partners, ever hear that phrase? Why would any guy want to risk getting an STD from you? Oh, let me fix a part of what you said;

I lost track of how many bad boys, thugs and players I slept with, while I let the real good guys who actually WORKED hard alone with nothing but their hands during school.

I think thats more correct now. I’m not some bitter nice guy making this up either, I’ve see this happening everyday with my OWN TWO EYES!

Besides, you might even get lucky once a month.

Is that all? Heck, like I said, I don’t want any STDs or other diseases like that, thank you.

I too, have also noticed the increase in women telling us men to ‘ quit complaining and get in line ‘ as we go about ranting the truth. Remember, our friend, Borat nearly destroyed Feminism in 5 minutes in his movie!

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At 9:41 PM, John said…

Chandra,

I too am a single parent. I have 2 children, and I Love them dearly ( and they are DEFINITELY my genetic offspring ) And Do everything I can to support them and provide for them, so I totally agree with you in that respect.

So I’d Like to propose that you come join my family. You can work 60 yours a week to pay for my house and kids clothes, food and toys ( you will have to go without for a while, given the high rate of taxes of course, no more than 17 years though, then you can have new things. I will stay home of course, and raise my kids. Joining a family is good for you, and as you stated, it wont bother you in the slightest to help pay for another womans kids.

On second thought, why dont you just send me, ohh, about 60% of your paycheck, and Ill let you have the benefit of visiting with my kids once a month?

And please, make sure you have had all your penicillin, Because if you cant remember how many guys you slept with in college, Im betting I dont have enough fingers to count all the STDs you have had.

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At 10:45 PM, Fidelbogen said…

“I would have stopped momentarily to piss on them.”

Even if they were on fire..? 😉

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At 11:42 PM, Anonymous said…

chandra

you’re being sarcastic right? because that pretty much sums up getting married these days.

which is why so many men naturally want to avoid it.

if you were actually being serious. . . its beyond unbelievable.

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At 12:01 AM, Anonymous said…

I think chandra was a joke account, but you never know with a feminist. Hey, I have an idea, go marry a player with a ton of illegitimate children and support him yourself. Sure there won’t be any women left for the rest of us, but at least we won’t have to listen to your bitching. I’m also all for polygamy, and mandatory DNA testing and required marriage. It’d be great to put some penalties on being a “PUA.” It wouldn’t prevent women from being sluts, but it’d be hilarious.

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At 12:03 AM, Raymond said…

Chandra said: “The past is the past. So what if lots of us went wild in college? I lost track of how many boys I slept with during school. Sex is just having fun.

The problem with men now is they they are afraid to pay for a woman and family since some of us might have had a little “fun” before wanting to get married. What’s wrong with paying to raise another guy’s kid? You want to be a father, right? You get the fun of being a dad. Who cares if some other guy got to have me?

There are lots of single women with children who need support. If you guys need a woman, don’t be afraid to support a woman with kids. It’s like getting an instant family – and studies say a family is better for a man. Besides, you might even get lucky once a month.”

Have you any idea how much of a slut, gold-digger, and general idiot you sounded like in just 3 paragraphs?

I thought this was a parody or a joke when I read this because this is EXACTLY THE THING MEN ARE FED UP WITH – SLUTS WHO ARE ALSO HYPOCRITES TO BOOT, RAISING KIDS THAT AREN’T THEIR OWN, SUPPORTING A FAMILY THEY DON’T BELIEVE IN. Christ have mercy on your soul because no other man is ever going to accept used-up bodies and I can’t blame them.

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At 1:23 AM, Rhythmic said…

AHAHHAHAHAHAH At that Chandra bitch.

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At 2:16 AM, Mamonaku187 said…

Ladies,

The backlash has just begun. Shaming language will no longer curb our wrath.

Men such as ourselves are working harder than ever to bring more and more men on our side.

We have suffered under feminism for close to 40 years. Playtime is over.

The movement won’t stop until the casket drops!

So, my advice to you is to stop talking, listen CAREFULLY to Men like Eternal Bachelor, and modify your ways accordingly.

Make no mistake… the Golden Age of woman will soon end.

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At 2:39 AM, Anonymous said…

I love the way they always dismiss your legitimate concerns with “you’re probably not getting any.” These were the same bitches complaining in the 70’s when told that what they needed was a good lay.

By the way, you meant “apoplectic with rage”, not “apocalyptic with rage”. If we’re going to be taken seriously, we have to make sure we don’t appear ignorant.

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At 4:56 AM, Anonymous said…

After my divorce, I took the time to make a comprehensive biographical audit of all of my experiences with women.

I looked back at my life-to-date and asked myself, what roles have women played in my personal history?

I discovered through objective reflection that women have been the source of most of my financial losses, emotional pain, and psychological distress.

In other words, I concluded that women have cost me much and benefited me little.

So, I decided to take the logical Buddhist path and eliminate the cause of my suffering.

I have cultivated a committed disinterest in women and no longer see them as objects of desire.

I can work cooperatively with females in the workplace; however, I decline and do not pursue any personal relationships with the predatory sex.

Women — feminists especially — can tolerate a man hating them.

That is in fact a form of attachment.

What drives women absolutely crazy (well, that’s already redundant), is men’s cultivated INDIFFERENCE.

They are, after all, attention whores.

When men go their own way, women are like heroin addicts left without a source of supply.

Try it and observe closely!

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At 5:44 AM, Anonymous said…

Guys, I am disappointed in you. “Chandra” was a very obvious troll. Don’t feed her.

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At 3:33 PM, caroline said…

Gender issues aside, people that are not happy tends to take it out on others.

It’s a little smarter to concentrate on making once one success in life however I am most probably commenting to deaf ears.

Panzer, Oxytocin is the hormone which is produced when you have sex; it is a “feel good” hormone and not a drug. Without it you may become angry, depressed or frustrated.

Bruce Wayne,

1.I do not think men are dumb, why would you think I have such thoughts?

2.Commitment may not be what many women want therefore not wanting to commit may not be an issue from a female point of view.

3.Wondering about a persons sex life may be overly interrogating however seeing it coming can not qualify as an answer.

Sexual relations with women can be categorized as a masochistic act for this Eternal Bachelor, since he is not willing or maybe able to answer, I draw the conclusion that he does not engage in it.

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At 4:17 PM, The Man On The Street said…

Anon,

Trolls of her caliber are wonderful! They prove our point without our having to utter a single word…. So, picking their “logic” (an oxymoron if I ever heard one) apart is, well, fun!

TMOTS

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At 4:30 PM, Anonymous said…

LOL at the typical femnag comment by Caroline – starts off with shaming language, then claims in the following paragraph that she “loves men.”

You’re not fooling anyone, harpy. And by the way, it’s spelled I wonder – not I wander, you dolt.

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At 4:34 PM, Anonymous said…

Let me paraphrase what voodoojock posted on MC some time ago, which perfectly sums up my sentiments:

I am no longer looking to compromise. I am looking to win.

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At 8:47 PM, Bruce Wayne said…

1.I do not think men are dumb, why would you think I have such thoughts?

Well you made the comment that the author is living in his reality as opposed to what is really happening.

Duncan’s blog is based on observable FACTS. In other words, he IS basing his opinion on what is REALLY going on in the world.

Just b/c he doesn’t agree with you, you argue that he’s living in his own fictional world. Sorry, but we know the bullshit card when we see it. Like I said, we aren’t dumb.

2.Commitment may not be what many women want therefore not wanting to commit may not be an issue from a female point of view.

Actually, commitment is what the vast majority of women want, especially after age 30. How else do you explain a $60 billion per year wedding industry that caters almost exclusively to women? That’s 2/3s of what IBM generated in revenue in 2005!

Sorry, but the argument that many women don’t want commitment just doesn’t hold up given the marriage industry stats and the severe panic women are having today when they realize more men are saying no to marriage or long term commitment.

If men going our own way doesn’t bother you, then why do I see womens’ magazines laced with articles on how to get men to commit to them. And why are you posting on this blog and arguing that men should commit to women, even if they have bastard children and?

3.Wondering about a persons sex life may be overly interrogating however seeing it coming can not qualify as an answer.

Women qualify men ALL the time. What job they have, what car they drive, and especially when it comes to their bank account.

And now you are complaining when some men refuse to marry women with questionable sexual histories, especially if they have children from such unions?

Your self-ritesouness is NAUSEATING, although typical of all women. Nothing new.

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At 4:02 AM, Egghead said…

Rob Fedders,

Nice job turning that feminist’s words around. (Sorry, I can’t bring myself to type its name.) Oddly enough, after you fixed it, it perfectly described exactly how I feel about the whole female sex today.

Cheers!

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At 6:04 AM, Raymond said…

Anonymous said: “I have cultivated a committed disinterest in women and no longer see them as objects of desire.

What drives women absolutely crazy (well, that’s already redundant), is men’s cultivated INDIFFERENCE.”

You, my friend, have nailed it as far as I’m concerned. Women want all sorts of attention from men, but if you don’t give it to them, *yikes!* Wait for the bitch-storm is all I can say. Too bad not many men care about women bitching anymore.

For some reason unfeminized men don’t care much at all about getting any attention from women! More power to them I say. (the men)

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At 6:29 AM, Anonymous said…

The MRA (Men’s Rights Movement) has absolutely no chance if the men involved cannot discern the difference between a real woman stating her opinions and a troll (man/woman/androgynous alien from outer space) such as chandra or sheryl or maybe even caroline (even though this person supposedly has a blogger identity).

In other words, don’t feed the trolls.

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At 8:08 AM, Anonymous said…

Caroline: So babies and children are angry, depressed or frustrated? I suppose the pope has all those same problems. As well as nuns. No, not buying that. Where did you read that anyway, a woman’s mag? I suppose it is asking too much to get any credible scientific evidence out of you for it. I was a Biology major in undergrad, and I even took a class on human reproduction, and I have never heard of oxytocin producing the effects you claim they have. At most, there may be some weak correlative evidence of it being related to “love,” which itself doesn’t make much sense from an evolutionary standpoint. The effects on the male are also questionable overall, oxytocin primarily affects females, while other horomones, such as vassopressin (sp? it’s been awhile for me) have much more of an impact on males. I’m not going to waste my time writing up research for something that doesn’t matter however, but know that I’ve certainly done more than enough to blast your stupid argument to pieces already. Next time read scientific literature, and not stupid women’s pop science mags.

Empty psychology is a great area of female expertise. Generally you can say absolutely anything negative you want, and claim that there is a theory for it. For instance, women that like to shop do so because they are shallow, and by purchasing items they are filling a void in their lives that they know they are unable to fill otherwise. Shopping is clearly a symptom of an unbalanced human being, and those who shop must be treated with extreme caution. See what I mean? That holds about as much merit as all the broad generalizations and nonsense you’ve been spouting in these comments.

A woman that supports feminism is virtually guaranteed to be ugly. I have yet to meet an attractive woman that cared one iota for it. They know the advantages they have, they don’t want to change anything. The average and ugly women however are quite jealous of the attractive women, but they realize that they won’t gain anything out of attacking that target, so they channel their anger against men. By poisoning relations between men and women, the advantage attractive women had over other women is being nullified. Look at the women getting all the benefits, the people that make up the political ranks and the administrative positions, they’re all ugly and a lot of them look like men. Because of the fear of sexual harassment charges, most of the successful men eschew relations with women altogether or are extremely careful with any commitment whatsoever. The attractive women now only have men that have nothing to lose going after them, thugs, criminals, “players.” Decent men don’t want to gamble away their careers. Hey, this is what you wanted ladies, this is what you’ll get. Maybe if the divorce laws and female attitudes are fixed, the rest of us will be willing to deal with you again seriously. Until then, we’re all going to follow the PUA model and go with the fuck ‘n chuck method when we do deal with you. Congrats, your dumb little movement managed to screw you morons over completely.

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At 8:09 AM, Anonymous said…

Caroline, you must be unhappy with your life, since you are taking it out on others, and you’re definitely unhappy with your sex life, since you’re projecting that onto others as well. How can you be this stupid? Do you even think before you post at all?

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At 9:45 PM, khankrumthebulgar said…

The latest Feminist tactic is to say “But I really do Love Men”. It is an attempt to hide their true intent and nature. The other new Feminist behavior is Ala Carte Feminism. That is picking and choosing from Traditional Female privileges and Feminist entitlements.

I want to be an equal, but pay for my Dinner, Vacation, Travel etc.

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At 10:42 PM, Pete Patriarch said…

Feminism is a great deal for women. Such an awesome deal that I am automatically suspicious of any woman who claims to be on our side.

Feminism is an extension of women’s historic power and freedom, while the Men’s Rights Movement is a struggle to cast off the male role of cannon fodder, slave and workhorse.

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At 12:00 AM, Panzer said…

Caroline, when you said Oxytocin, I thought you meant Oxycodin(I probably mis-spelled that), hillbilly herion. Oxytocin, cant say I ever heard of that, I thought it was endorphines that gave what you described. I know this is a bit off topic, but what the hey, just might learn something, and I am always for that.The comment you made about being masochistic, no I cant say I am. I f I want to get hurt, I will go to work, there I at least I get positive results. I got to say I like your posts, excellent job.

Panzer

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At 7:51 AM, Nilk said…

I’ve got to admit, I never knew it was supposed to make me feel good.

A quick google shows me what I already knew – oxytocin is the hormone at work in labour and breastfeeding. It’s also responsible for cramps during menstruation. All TMI for the blokes, I’m sure, and no picnic for me, I can tell you at times.

But to just comment on the topic, and I’ll no doubt come across as condescending, guys, Duncan has some good stuff to say.

I’m not going to say I’m on your side, because I’m on my side or our side.

Some of us women know there are huge problems, but I don’t expect you to believe me.

Why should you?

I read, and I feel for you. What I can’t do is fix the problems. Not for you, or me, or anyone else.

I do my own thing, raise my kid (with minimal assistance from anyone else) and get by.

LOL And I didn’t get Jesus when I hit 30.

Been a rock crusher since my 20s. Go figure.

I guess you can commence the arsekicking now.

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At 2:09 PM, Anonymous said…

Take special note of what canaryguy said on the 7th comment:

“It isn’t just backlash that women are dealing with (and we need to give them more of that), but blowback.

Men walking away from systems that are stacked against them (marriage, workplace romance) is just the natural consequences that women have worked for.”

If you’re saying what I think you’re trying to say, canaryguy, thanks for pointing out this fairly obvious truth. It is actually a natural consequence of the feminazi agenda that men would walk away from marriage because it is so impractical and meaningless. This is exactly what the feminists wanted – to destroy the institution of marriage and its social consequences. They have, judging from this blog and others, quite obviously succeeded.

Let’s not forget that a woman does indeed forfeit at least some of her independence when she marries, so this is bad for feminism. (And so does the man – it’s called sacrifice.) Sexual independence and promiscuity, ruthlessly promoted to women in our society of institutionalized amorality, makes marriage an impossible bond in most cases. Because of how fickle today’s females are – quite possibly a consequence of financial wallet-to-the-purse empowerment and promiscuity – men look at marriage and say “Bad deal!. This is exactly what the feminists wanted – by walking away from marriage we are further destroying the “institution”. Of course, marriage is totally impractical today and we have no choice but to walk away from it.

All of this promiscuity and callousness between the sexes is fine as long as we’re all young and in the peak of our sexual health, when we get older this sexual allure fades, and this is even more so for women. I suspect that rather than for financial gold-digging reasons, women increasingly just “like” the idea of marriage, because that is their “idea” of success, of looking like a successful woman in front of the rest of the girls.

They’re figuring, hey, maybe my friendly-friendly relations with girls won’t be so warm and loving in the long run. So this feminist (self-acknowledging or not) goes about changing her spots. The trouble is, she has lived a life of being such inconsiderate whore and is unable to handle the commitment or sacrifice of marriage, and she probably has not not matured personally and morally to handle it. I suspect a greater number of men have.

Let us not forget, though, that we are actually playing right into the feminist agenda when we abandon marriage, even if we have no choice. (Women of course like it because it’s a “good deal” for them. Take away the custody and property rights and interest would disappear overnight. They too would abandon it.) The culture of moral decay and of a corrupt, fragmented social fabric is the feminist ideal. They have succeeded, very, very well.

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At 4:46 AM, HAWKEYE said…

some one else made a comment about a rhino with lipstick,if you look at sheryls pic i would say yep!! that about sums it up

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At 4:58 AM, Anonymous said…

Feminists may get exactly what they want, in the destruction of marriage and the family, but how long are they gonna be able to enjoy it? THe Feral Bastards being raised today male and Female, are in no shape to take over for them when they start dying off.

Without a replacement strategy, every cultural movement sputters out and dies. Ho Hum.

Feminists have already spread out overseas, to devastating effect in India and other up and coming countries, but they have only been at this some 40 odd years…. 40 more and who exactly are they going top induct?

It would be interesting to be able to sit around and watch to see what arises from the ashes after feminism implodes…

Wait a sec… isnt that the plan of every male reader on this board?
Lets see them raise their own asses out of the fire and build a new civilization out of nothing. Should be neat to see, after all, no woman has every done it before in 10s of thousands of years… it’ll be CUTE!! Maybe have nice pick shoes too…

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At 3:10 PM, anon905 said…

To anonymous above, I think you are mistaking a few things. The free movement of people (i.e. immigration) can offset the plummeting birth-rates due to feminist indoctrination; i.e. the working population can be maintained. You’re wrong if you think a society cannot survive if the population is not constantly growing, and if the native population aren’t reproducing. It can and will survive. I cannot cite a case in history where the birthrates are falling so low, can you? Perhaps that would give more authority to your argument.

Also, artificial sperm production and the artificial womb may be worked out within the next 50 years, solving the population problem.

Feminism has been around 40 years, what lies in store for the next 40? Well, all of us men can sit back and watch as feminism and the feminist agenda strengthens further and further. Men will be almost non-existent in the high-paid professions thanks to the lack of parity in universities in those areas today. In the next 40 years, you are looking at widespread humiliation of the male gender and social rape of his rights and status.

Weak men are in the political and economic interests of today’s world – we are wiser, spend less, more revolutionary and do not accept authority so well. We are a threat to the grand plan. Unless we address male issues such as parenthood, divorce laws and a promotion of single-sex schools (perhaps) among other educational reforms, feminism is going full steam ahead over the male. And it won’t be pretty for us. But society will continue to work.

You said you wanted to see them “build a new civilization out of nothing“. Since when do they have to build a “society out of nothing”?!? How absurd. Just because you live in a true Matriarchy where women overtly have all the political and economic power, it doesn’t mean that all the technology and tools that existed up until then will cease to be. The simply inherit the society that went before them. Maybe you think they want to “build a new civilisation”? No, they don’t. They current one fits fine with the feminist agenda. They will just make minor adjustments to it and continue as normal.

Please keep it real. A female-led society is very much possible and only requires minor adjustments to the current system. In fact, the female-led system is already here; they just don’t want to overtly show it by female heads of State, etc., so we won’t be intimidated, yet.

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At 4:35 PM, caroline said…

Anonymous

You are absolutely right that I should have mentioned the peptide neurotransmitter Vasopressin however you assumed wrongly that my source may be woman’s magazines in regards to Oxytocin.

I would think that any sensible being would not turn to woman magazines for information related to the functioning of the human body much in the same way one would not turn to a whore for love.

Now in regards to babies, there at least Oxytocin has a role as it is, in fact, also produced while cuddling and touching which is what a mother would do to comfort a baby. (Produced by both giver and receiver and creates a “feel good”).

In regards to the Pope and nun’s, I am not of the opinion that living celibate or without sexual or physical interaction is healthy or natural for humans. However I do not doubt that they are happy and joyous for other reasons such as their religious convictions.

You may be right that there is more anger towards men expressed through extreme feminism, in less attractive woman. However I would think it equals the anger towards woman expressed by less successful males.

It is of my opinion that wealthy, successful males have less trouble with woman in the same way attractive female has less trouble with males. And I believe this is related to the biological role of males and females where the human male is the protector and provider and the female attracts him in order to reproduce.

And the other Anonymous

I really did not try in any way to “take it out on” in regards to my comment on the Eternal Bachelors sex life, I was merely pointing out my assumption about it, there is a major difference between the two.

Panzer

I believe you gave me a compliment. Thank you.

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At 5:16 PM, Anonymous said…

And I do not believe you were deserving of that compliment, Caroline. Typical FemNag non-arguments from you.

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At 4:37 AM, Panzer said…

Caroline, I did. You’re welcome.

Panzer

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At 6:20 PM, Anonymous said…

I want to give some hope to the men in this blog’s comment-space. The feminist-dominated legal landscape in the U.S. directly drove my decision at 18 to be extremely careful in choosing my life mate; it took over 8 years of exclusively dating one woman before I was convinced she was The One. Where did I find her? In Texas, USA. More specifically, she was raised in small town Texas, not metropolitan city Texas (though we met in the city).

Texas is commonly portrayed in the mass media as a hick, backwater area, especially with George Bush (a self-identifying Texan) the target of all sorts of feminist and leftist rage these days. I say let them keep it camouflaged for us; the more the hardcore leftists spouting man-hating vitriol stay away from Texas the happier it makes me. So for you U.K. blokes who want to find a life mate, consider visiting Texas or any of the other “red” states frowned upon by conventional feminist doctrine. You don’t have to actually go to the small towns; plenty of migration from small town to big city still going on. Just find out how she was raised, get to know her parents, and that will tell you most of what you need to know about her predisposition to feminism.

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At 11:31 PM, Schpengle Carrot-Tripe said…

ah well, you may never read this belated posting but…….
caroline, you wrote,
“It is of my opinion that wealthy, successful males have less trouble with woman in the same way attractive female has less trouble with males. And I believe this is related to the biological role of males and females where the human male is the protector and provider and the female attracts him in order to reproduce.

well,
it is my opinion,….
and I believe…..

caroline, my dear old flower,

opionions are like arseholes, everyone has one , yet they are all different.
there is not perfect arsehole (well, bush maybe…)

so your opinion and what you believe hold no sway in any discussion with myself, or anyone else you are debating with, if thier veiwpoints are different.

they are both valid to the holders and can merely be discussed

SO , your comment is without any other than rhetorical worth in this instance, even though you state it as fact.
so, In my opinion , I am correct, and I believe you deductions of the situation to be false.
see?
Easy!
bye

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At 5:09 PM, AndyS said…

caroline said…
I wander if you are getting any sex. I suspect not therefore your anger may be due to a lack of oxytocin.

I love men, honestly. and I am single, have success in my work, very much like men that treat woman with respect and I am without a need to demonstrate any feminism and get along perfectly with happy healthy men which understands that everything changes with time, even the role of men and woman in society and relationships.

I would think you just need a slight adaptation to the times that you live in. And learn to love the opposite sex as well.

You seam more like a victim to your own ideas of reality then what is the actual fact about it.

I’m married and I get sex regularly and I still see the issues clearly and it pisses me off. Stop pretending to not be complicit.

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At 5:18 PM, AndyS said…

chandra said…
The past is the past. So what if lots of us went wild in college? I lost track of how many boys I slept with during school. Sex is just having fun.

The problem with men now is they they are afraid to pay for a woman and family since some of us might have had a little “fun” before wanting to get married. What’s wrong with paying to raise another guy’s kid? You want to be a father, right? You get the fun of being a dad. Who cares if some other guy got to have me?

There are lots of single women with children who need support. If you guys need a woman, don’t be afraid to support a woman with kids. It’s like getting an instant family – and studies say a family is better for a man. Besides, you might even get lucky once a month.

This is a joke, right? LOL

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